Wednesday, January 21, 2015

Dealing with Those Troubled People




People are trouble. People are troubling. People are troubled. If you are like me, each of these statements elicits a different emotional response.

A series of books on my shelf have titles like these: Surviving Difficult Church Members, Getting Along with People Who Don’t Get Along, Coping with Difficult People, Well-Intentioned Dragons. These have been around for years. Books with similar titles on the same subject have multiplied exponentially. How do we come to see people not as problems but as individuals who have problems?

Jesus saw the crowds as individuals with challenges they could not face alone. They needed help. Their major problem was their inherent weakness and inability to deal with all that life was dumping on them. His response was one of compassion.

Mat 9:35-36 And Jesus went throughout all the cities and villages, teaching in their synagogues and proclaiming the gospel of the kingdom and healing every disease and every affliction. When he saw the crowds, he had compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.

Every individual was made in the image of God and thus had an innate value that could not be changed by circumstances or personal decisions. Every individual was loved by God and had the potential for a loving relationship with him. When that did not occur, the Lord was grieved and the individual was the loser.

Jesus put up with all kinds of people. For some he had compassion. He healed them or he confronted them. In conversation with the troubled he told them they had a problem which they had to face and make a decision. He couldn’t make it for them. In all these cases Jesus still loved the individual and was willing to show that love.

In other cases, however, Jesus loved the individual, but he did not hesitate to show his anger for their attitudes. He was angry at Pharisees and synagogue leaders who thought remembering Sabbath laws was more important than showing compassion. He was angry with his disciples who placed convenience and order above showing compassion to children. He was angry at temple rulers who placed making money above keeping the House of God a House of Prayer.

In the eyes of Jesus these people were not a problem. They had a problem. They had sold out to the life patterns and priorities of the world. In doing so they were destroying the opportunity for God’s love to be revealed in the world through them.

Jesus told a parable we have come to know as the story of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10). As the story unfolds, we see that every individual in the story has a problem/concern. The thieves are motivated by greed. The victim is motivated by his circumstances. The priest and Levite are motivated by self-righteousness. The Samaritan is motivated by mercy and compassion for the victim.

As Jesus concludes the story, he asks his questioner for his insight.

Luk 10:36-37 Which of these three, do you think, proved to be a neighbor to the man who fell among the robbers?" He said, "The one who showed him mercy." And Jesus said to him, "You go, and do likewise."

As individuals we will always face people who make life inconvenient for us. They will impose on us. They will ask for our time, our attention, and lots of other things. They will irritate us. They will demand our approval of and our conformity to their ideas.

Jesus told his followers to be willing to show compassion. Troubled people are as sheep without a shepherd trying to make it through life under their own power and in their own wisdom, doomed to failure. They don’t know which way to turn because they have no guide to point them in the right direction. We must be willing to show compassion and mercy. What they may deserve is neither of any consequence nor our primary concern. That is why Jesus rightfully bears the title, Prince of Peace.