Wednesday, May 28, 2014

Time To Get Away




When Jesus told his disciples to come away with him to escape the demanding crowds, he wasn’t looking for just a time to regroup and then return to the chaos. (Mark 6:30-32) He was emphasizing the need to get some rest, to be distracted from the needs of the world and focus upon the emotional, relational, physical, and spiritual needs every human being has. Their mission work had depleted them of the energy they needed to continue in Kingdom work.

Those disciples needed rest. They hadn’t done hard farm work or spent 72 straight hours pulling nets filled with fish. They had just returned from preaching the gospel, healing the sick, and casting out demons. (Mark 6:12-13) The work of the Kingdom of God is greater than human strength alone can support. Even with the help of the Holy Spirit, exhaustion can be the result of faithful service. Such was the case for the disciples. Jesus told them, “Come away… and rest a while.”

We do ourselves a great disservice when we do not do the same. Physically we need sleep. Our bodies need to turn off and let cells cleanse themselves. Our brains need to have time to recalculate everything they absorbed during the waking hours, holding some details in easy access and sending others into the deeper subconscious. Minds can refocus on priorities and options allowing for clearer thinking and well thought out resolutions. Our emotions need times when peace is dominant and hormones can reestablish equilibrium.

At times of such peace and rest God may well have the best chance to break into our private world, get our attention, and share something with us we had been too busy to hear. Jesus told his disciples to come away with him after a prolonged period of work. They needed a change of pace, a change of scenery, a chance to think without pressure, and a chance to recharge their batteries. To ignore the need was to lessen their ability to serve their Master.

We don’t have to use our imaginations much to see what happens when we don’t take time to get away. On the mild end of the spectrum we fall asleep at work or worse yet while driving. We get grumpy and carry a short fuse on our tempers. Our response time shortens and we become more prone to accidents. As our situation moves toward the extreme, our immune system weakens and we become more susceptible to illness.

I doubt very much if it is unique to ministers, but in our vocation we call one result of a lack of rest, “burnout”. Enthusiasm is gone. Creativity is gone. Energy is gone. Any desire to participate is gone. The individual is left an emotional shell. Too many emotional battles and too many broken dreams leave the worker with no desire to work. This goes far beyond a mood or passing state. This person simply has nothing to give and there is nothing left in the inner reservoir.

Jesus told his disciples to come away and rest a while. He knew their human strength was limited. He knew there was a lot of road ahead still to be traveled. As the old saying goes, if they did not come apart, they were bound to fall apart.

We need to get away on a regular basis. The easiest way is to get adequate sleep. Even Shakespeare wrote that into his plays, “Sleep that knits up the raveled sleave of care.” (Macbeth, Act 2, Scene 2) Another way is to schedule down times on a regular basis when personal interests take precedence over business.

On a periodic basis get a change in scenery if only for a few hours. A one or two night stay somewhere does not have to be at a five star hotel. More important than the amount of time is how the time will be spent. The world of stress and work must be left behind. There is no rest when the load is taken along. God has to be given a chance to restore and replenish.