Thursday, February 13, 2014

Hiding the Not So Pretty



As I write this, eight inches of snow has covered the ground and round three has begun. A couple of degrees warmer and it would all be rain. A couple of degrees cooler and the accumulation would already be ten inches plus.

Tree limbs are gracefully outlined with a white blanket. The snow has placed a muffler on noises softening the sounds of trucks on nearby roads. The rough edges and ugly scars of nature are hidden, and a vision of smooth perfection is produced. Norman Rockwell would be proud of the finished piece.

That is one of the great beauties of snow. It hides the grays and browns of winter under an expanse of white. We enjoy the serenity of the picture and for the moment ignore what lies hidden beneath. Too often we allow our words and façades to create the same type of deception for the people around us. We do it as individuals. We do it as churches.

For some churches it is a matter of focusing upon the physical facilities. The thought is we honor God best when we keep the buildings in pristine condition. The church building is equated with the spiritual condition of the Church, God’s people. When we look good with our facilities, we please God to the extent required. People and relationships are given little priority. Faithfulness to the church is measured by faithfulness in maintaining the facilities.

The beauty of buildings and facilities becomes a bandage to hide the deeper wound of a lack of concern for the spiritual health of people both inside and outside the congregation. “If we build it, they will come” is a statement that reflects this attitude. “They can see our steeple. They know where we are if they want to come” is another comment that shows a lack of concern for the spiritual condition of others and our own responsibility to seek to address that issue.

Another façade churches use to feel better about themselves involves their programs. They have programs for families. They have programs for senior adults. They have programs for youth. They have programs for children. They have programs for preschoolers, and on and on and on. Unfortunately their system of measurement consists of counting heads, especially church members. Honoring God consists of supporting all the programs of the church.

Busyness becomes equated with spiritual strength and maturity. Little emphasis is placed upon growing in Christlikeness or relating to the unchurched of the community. As in some conversations, if a person talks fast enough and long enough, the other parties in the dialogue won’t have the opportunity to ask difficult or embarrassing questions. So it is with busyness in the church. It becomes a bandage to hide our fear or outright lack of desire to engage the unchurched population around us. Our clean busyness with what is safe and nonthreatening prevents us from being held responsible for the messy.

When we substitute anything for striving to grow in spiritual maturity or reaching the unchurched of our community, we have blinded ourselves to what God has called his people to have as their focus. We put a bandage over our weaknesses and distractions and try to push into the limelight what we think looks good and ought to impress others including God. We’ve allowed those same metrics to impress us. In the process the Church loses all influence in the world and it is simply ignored. At best the world may notice the Church but respond with an attitude of “so what” and leave it to its self-congratulating pastimes.

Scripture has told us what is to be our priority. (Micah 6:8; Matthew 6:33; 28:18-20) Christ calls us as individuals and as churches to be honest with the world we are trying to reach. We show our weaknesses and our faults. (II Corinthians 12:9-10) We show our efforts to overcome them all. (I Corinthians 9:26-27; Philippians 3:13-14) We show where we have to go for help and invite the world to join us in our journey. (Philippians 4:12-13)